Be Happy Being Single!

Being single can be a double edge sword. We have the benefit of seeing whoever we want, whenever we want, sleeping with every man, woman or person and we have no one to answer to. There are no consequences to our behaviour or accountability. Though being single can make us feel lonely and unloved, the desire for a meaningful person in our life. How can we find the balance and remain happy.

The single life is not for everyone, some desire the permanent companionship of another individual for a life long commitment and many do. Others cringe at the idea of being with one person forever and feel they sacrifice too much. Both people have the right and choice for what they want to do. Though at some point in our lives, most people will find them self being single, whether it be short or long term, this is where we can choose to make the most of it or begrudgingly accept it.

While being single, I offer the advice to enjoy it. It may not last and you have opportunities to do whatever you want. Go on dates, have sex with people, create friends or friends with benefits, do what makes you happy. Know that you only have yourself to answer to. You may find times where you feel lonely and thats ok, you may feel that you want someone, those are the times where you can go on dates, but know that you don't need someone, you want someone.

For you, single life may last forever or a short time, but enjoy it and make the most of it. Take it as a time to prepare yourself for a relationship and get to know yourself before someone else.

Much Love, Joe